Successful Surrogate Pregnancy Gives Chance For Local High School Sweethearts to Start a Family

The Gills are growing after three years of finding a surrogate and six failed embryo transfers, the seventh one proved to be the lucky one for high school sweethearts Brianna and Josh Gill, who had a successful pregnancy at 13-and-a-half weeks in.

Josh (left), Brianna (middle) and Jenn (right) with the former two holding lemons, indicating the rough size of the baby at 13 weeks of pregnancy. Photo courtesy of Brianna Gill.

Brianna was diagnosed with Mayer-Rokitansky-Kuster-Hauser syndrome, a condition that affects women to have underdeveloped uteri and vaginas, causing them to be unable to reproduce. Brianna was born without a uterus though she does have ovaries when she was diagnosed at 16.

The Gills have gone through two surrogates with the first being a family friend in 2022. They had two unsuccessful embryo transfers and eventually put a call for another candidate later that year.

“There have been numerous times where I’ve wanted to walk away,” said Brianna. “It’s just been so hard emotionally, financially and you start to think to yourself, ‘Why am I putting myself through all of this?’”

A woman named Jenn (who saw our first article of the story on Facebook) reached out to be their surrogate in the summer of 2022. She underwent four unsuccessful embryo transfers before the fifth one hit the mark and was eventually revealed to be a baby girl.

“(It was) Complete disbelief, to be honest,” said Brianna. “We actually got together with Jenn and her family, we were waiting for blood work results to come back but got impatient.”

Jenn suggested a pregnancy test since she had a ‘good feeling.’

“Josh looked at it first; the pregnant line was clearly darker than the other, and I just went into complete shock,” explained Brianna. “I couldn’t believe it.”

Brianna said Jenn was a driving factor in continuing to pursue the dream despite the past failed attempts.

“We had originally agreed — which is pretty standard — you’ll try three times and after that, if things don’t work, you’ll break a match and look for a new surrogate,” she said. “Jenn is so determined. She wanted this so badly for us.”

While the Gills had stopped after two failed transfers from their first surrogate, Jenn’s will was unphased in helping them reach their goal.

“She kept saying after each failed transfer, ‘I’m willing to try again if you guys are but I totally understand if you’d rather go in a different direction,’ but I think having her be so determined is what helped us want to continue.”

It also helped that the embryos were expensive to create so stopping could have cost a lot of money for the Gills with no results.

The Gills recently held a gender reveal party earlier in the week and tracked their entire journey on Instagram with over 2,800 followers.

Even 13-and-a-half weeks into the pregnancy, Brianna's thought of having a baby was still surreal.

“We got our first bump picture around the 10-week mark and that really helped make me feel that this was real,” she explained. “It’s hard to let go of the trauma of going through of the negatives and I finally feel like I am able to focus on the future and enjoy where we are.”

With a successful pregnancy and a baby girl on the way, Brianna says that this is the motivation for perhaps a second one to come in the future.

“This journey was a lot harder than we ever thought it would be which definitely played a factor at one point on whether or not we could mentally go through this again,” she explained. “Finally, now that we've had success too and we can start to see the light at the end of the tunnel, I think it will motivate us to try to do this again someday for sure.” 

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